We are often told “good things come to those who wait,” which I believe is a phrase that people use as a prefix to being patient, passive and oblivious to self-discovery and really going after what they want. Truth is, I also believe this philosophy was programmed into our subconscious from generation to generation so that humanity for the most part is kept small.

This kind of thinking contributes to our limiting beliefs and in order to have the life we want, we need to wait for a miracle, versus really believing WE are the MIRACLE!  Imagine if every human being believed that good things come to those that make things happen”  I recently came to the conclusion that my irresponsible approach to getting what I want out of my life was not working and if it is to BE it is up to ME!

I finally surrendered to the fact that I am 100% responsible for everything that went right and wrong in my life.  That my lack of results in specific areas, is all due to the choices I made!  Extra, Extra read all about it…….hot off the press…. YES!!!! AUDREY is taking 100% responsibility and Lovin it!!!  LOL.  I can clearly see that every choice I made has compounded into the results that show up in  my life today!  With this clarity  I can now create different choices to create different results and only 3 people are responsible for that, ME, MYSELF and I!

This breakthrough in my thinking has provided such a sense of freedom and personal power.  I no longer put the blame on my circumstances or more importantly try to play the blame game with others.  Incredible things are opening up for me because I created a new space of possibility in my life that I have never been blessed to experience before.  There are people who may not agree with the fact that we all come into this world the same and what we end up with is the accumulation of the choices we made. Many believe you cannot control your outcomes. I stand before you as a witness to myself and others, humbly acknowledging that YES YOU CAN!!

I encourage you to look at the areas of your life that are not working and see where YOU have shown up as a block and a magnet for self-destruction. Look at your relationships and how you have been resistant to growing with them and not accepting them for who they are and who they are not. Look at the areas of your life where resentment and judgement takes precedence over love and how much you are willing to sacrifice for the sake of being right.  In your everyday communication with others, do you listen to understand or listen simply to reply?  The choices we make are at the root of every result. What you see is what you get. That is it and as ugly as that may appear for some, if you really took the time to be honest with yourself and ask yourself what choice could I have made that would of created a different result.

I invite you to make today and everyday moving forward be one that has you be unstoppable, bold and courageous. To discover what your future could look like if you transformed or gave up some of your belief systems that have you go against the very things you crave. Make today the day that you do not wait for life to happen and instead YOU create the life you want. Choose to forgive someone who you have been making wrong and see them as reflection of you.  Choose to take responsibility for things that were not completed and communicate with the people you broke your promise with.  Choose to not judge others for their choices and focus on taking action in your own life.

Simple small choices can create radical results. When we choose from a space of integrity, respect, honor, happiness and most of all unconditional love, we expand our lives. If you want to see your life change, you need to lead it with positive, powerful choices and that my friends, will be your gateway to a life of abundance, magic and miracles!!